When Depression Causes a Lack of Motivation

March 18, 2015 Mike Ehrmantrout

When depression causes a lack of motivation, tasks seem insurmountable. You can beat it, though. Read what to do when depression causes a lack of motivation.

The lack of motivation that can be caused by depression and other mental illnesses can be debilitating. There are some things that are so important they must be done as soon as possible. But for those who battle depression, the lack of motivation can be an enemy that seems insurmountable at times (Depression Can Drain You of Your Will to Live). Here's what to do when depression causes a lack of motivation.


Lack of Motivation is Common in Depression

The United States Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) has established a working definition of mental health recovery that defines recovery as: “a process of change through which individuals improve their health and wellness, live self-directed lives, and strive to reach their full potential.”

You may have noticed all the elements of SAMHSA’s definition of mental health recovery require you to do something. “But,” I protest, “I can’t even get out of bed.” Depression saps motivation so completely, the depressed person can often find herself in the midst of a pile of tasks left undone and plans left unrealized.

Don't Mistake Depression and Lack of Motivation for Laziness

This is often where the depressed person can be, mistakenly, thought of as lazy or apathetic. A depressed person’s lack of motivation is not the same as laziness. When someone is lazy, they don’t want to do work or do unpleasant tasks, even when they have the energy to do so. They may be motivated just fine, they simply don’t want to exert themselves in any way.

The person who is unmotivated due to depression usually wants to work and do other things, but feels as if they can’t. This is a key difference between laziness and depression.

Since we see that becoming motivated even in the depths of our depression, or other mental illness, is a huge part of the mental health recovery process, let’s look at three ways to overcome the depression-caused lack of motivation we might feel.

3 Ways to Beat Depression's Lack of Motivation

1. Identify the Essentials

When you’re depressed and lack motivation, you may need to adjust your ideas about what is essential and what isn’t. Doing the dishes is essential; polishing the faucet isn’t.

2. Break Up Large Tasks Into Smaller, Easier Ones

Okay, so the kitchen needs cleaning. There are dirty dishes everywhere. But it’s such a huge job when we’re depressed that we let it go and it becomes much worse. And this just serves to make our depression worse because we feel lazy and no good. So instead of telling ourselves, “I’ve got to get this whole kitchen cleaned up,” we should break it down and say, the first thing is to unload the dishwasher full of clean dishes. But this is even too much, so we tell ourselves, “okay, the only thing I have to do right now is unload the silverware." This is a job we can usually get ourselves to do because it’s short and easy and requires only a bit of our valuable energy. Once we're done with the silverware, we can leave the kitchen and collapse on the couch until the next time we go to the kitchen for something and break off another small chunk by unloading just the bottom portion of the dishwasher.

By doing things this way, it allows us to at least get started on our immediate tasks. Granted, it takes a bit longer using this method, but it’s better than not doing anything at all.

3. Be Positive about Even the Smallest Victories

In mental health recovery, any small step should be celebrated. Use these victories to encourage and remind yourself that you can indeed overcome one step at a time. You’ll be able to say, “I know I can do it because I’ve done it before.” When depression causes a lack of motivation, know that you can still beat it.

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Ehrmantrout, M. (2015, March 18). When Depression Causes a Lack of Motivation, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, July 19 from

Author: Mike Ehrmantrout

March, 19 2015 at 3:07 pm

Dealing with finances seems so overwhelming when
I'm depressed. I can't be the only one. What are
Some suggestions about maintaining my finances
My whole thought pattern revolves around
"I'll do it tomorrow...really I will." And then I don't.

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Tyler Andress
June, 11 2017 at 3:32 am

Financial Difficulties and Depression

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September, 10 2018 at 3:10 pm

Treat your procrastinating thoughts ("I'll do it tomorrow") as mere suggestions and make it your mission to ignore them. If you want to work on your finances and then all these thoughts come to your mind about all the things you could be doing instead, actively fight them! Outthink these thoughts. It may be hard at first, but once you repeat this process over and over again (with other things in your life as well), then after a while doing all that work will start to feel extremely satisfying and even somewhat fun. You will interiorize that new inner-self and will hate nothing more than not working on your stuff RIGHT NOW instead of tomorrow. Good luck!

March, 22 2015 at 7:24 am

I agree with what you are saying but what if the lack of motivation is due to anhedonia brought on by antipsychotic medication?

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Didi williams
January, 20 2019 at 1:25 pm

Stop the meds?... Or take more to counteract it?

April, 6 2019 at 7:05 pm

How irresponsible and ignorant to suggest to someone to stop taking their meds. This person obviously is lacking in knowledge about mental health issues and shouldn't even be on this forum.

April, 16 2015 at 3:04 pm

My apartment becomes one big giant mess when I'm depressed because all I want to do is sleep and even when I'm not particularly depressed I'd rather be doing something else than cleaning. But recently my apartment manager left me a note that said he needed access to my suite the following morning. I started to sob thinking how am I ever going to get this place cleaned up before tomorrow morning as it was already early evening. I was also struggling with a knee injury. I was afraid my manager would become upset with me if he saw my mess and I didn't want to get evicted or anything so after I composed myself I made a very large pot of coffee and went at it cleaning what I could before I became so overwhelmed that I had to stop then I set my alarm and rested for 15 minutes and repeated this process through out the night and well into the morning. Sometimes all I could do was clean a couple of dishes or vacuum a small patch floor before I had to rest. It certainly wasn't cleaned to perfection but at least when I was finished the following morning it looked more like the average persons manageable mess. I was barely able to focus the next day at work and as soon as I got home I went straight to bed

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September, 8 2017 at 5:44 pm

Congratulations, you did it. I feel overwhelmed when I have a big task to accomplish, breaking it down to smaller tasks works great for me. I feel better as I complete each task. Maybe you could make a list of the tasks you need to do, and put a check mark as you complete each one.

April, 17 2015 at 8:24 pm

I find that a good way for me to break up chores into small bits is do it while watching tv. When the commercials come on, I jump up and do something. You can do just about anything for 3-4 min at a time. I try to see how much I can accomplish during each break.

Lahti Ann
April, 17 2015 at 11:38 pm

Renita, I do the same thing. But I MAKE myself invite someone critical (like my mother), over. It makes me at least get it presentable and pushes me, where I wouldn't on my own.
Beth, during depressive episodes, I tend to over spend and use retail therapy as temporary comfort. I get paid every two weeks. Every pay is different, but I know the baseline amount. I give every dollar a place to go. All my bills are written down and assigned before their due date to the paycheck closest to it. For example, I got paid 10th & 24th of april. April 10th paid all bills due 11th-25th and the 24th will pay all bills due 26th-may 2nd...etc etc. To start forcing myself to save, I have automatic deposit of an affordable amount to a credit union with the worst hours ever and no ATM card. It's a pain to go there, and so the money stays. I was procrastinating my bills to avoid feeling more depressed, but was getting behind and getting snowballed. So this worked for me. I have a dated chart with vertical payday columns and horizontal bill rows. I hope this helps.

carol bennett
May, 13 2015 at 4:34 am

The above really makes sense. Actually today I have spent 3 hours renewing old plants for new home grown ones. I have just started taking propranalol and wonder if they gave me the much needed motivation I didn't have before? Thank you for this site. Cheers, Carol

August, 11 2015 at 7:14 am

I have been dealing with this, and the accompanying guilt for the last 3 years; switching medications, joining a yoga class and participating in NAMI (Nat'l Alliance for Mental Illness) helps so very much. Please consider any of these! NAMI is free of charge, operates everywhere in the US and was the first thing I reached out to when I didn't have health insurance, severely depressed and very low on income. THEY WERE ANGELS. Just google NAMI. Please consider it!

June, 18 2016 at 1:18 pm

I suffer from depression. I got married 6 days ago. The month before things started going down. 1st my nephew was hospitalize and we almost lost him. 2nd everyone didn't want to pay. 3rd 6 hours before the wedding the elder had to cancel due to death, and my cousin whom I looked up too, call and said that she prayed and holy spirit allow her to come, note this; she was in charge of the wedding reception. My wedding reception was a complete fail bc she had cake everything. I was so down, my honeymoon I spent so much time crying. My husband understood and comfort me a lot. I didn't get any pressure from him. I feel so bad as of now.

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September, 8 2017 at 5:38 pm

I think it's great that you have a caring supportive husband. Sometimes that makes all the difference in the world. I wish you had a better experience on the day that is important. Have you ever considered renewing your vows? Maybe that would be helpful to create a new memory to replace the old one.You could have as many or as few people as you want. Maybe you can just have people who support you and love you attend. Maybe you and your husband could go somewhere to make a fond memory. I hope everything works out for you. You have to understand that there are people who love and support you. I hope you feel better.

July, 8 2016 at 2:05 pm

I have been feeling major depression for 2 years. I still find it hard to function and I can't work. I want to know if recovery is possible

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June, 18 2017 at 1:12 pm

I honestly don't think it is. But that could be my depression talking. Every time I think I'm getting better (and I'm over the moon ecstatic about it), I relapse. I have no hope for the future.

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June, 20 2017 at 1:40 pm

Michele and Devorah, there is always hope - if you choose it. Reach out for support and be compassionate toward yourself. Depression is very hard to deal with (I'm in the process of recovery right now) but it does not have to be a life sentence. I have no idea of your particular circumstances so all I can say is that you need to hold on to hope and then take small baby steps toward healing.

Tom M.
August, 27 2016 at 4:27 pm

I've suffered from depression for many years. I stay home most of the time. There's no problem cleaning my living space or taking care of my 2 cats. My problem is hygiene. I'll be going along fine for a few weeks, being really clean and polished, and then suddenly I say, "Oh, what's the use. This is so boring." Then, I won't shower or brush my teeth for a week. Then, slowly the ability comes back. This is so annoying. I hate being this way, but can't seem to overcome it.

Kev Man
June, 29 2017 at 3:15 pm

I wish i was mentally ill. Then i could get a pass on having to live up to the average person's responsibilities. But instead, because i work so hard to maintain, im the one who had to pick up the slack you broken brains leave behind. Must be nice to be allowed to be lazy and have the world feel sorry for you.

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July, 4 2017 at 12:47 am

You have got to be kidding... Depression is a serious deal, just because you don't experience it doesn't mean you should belittle the people who do.
And fyi, mostly even severely depressed people WANT to be helpful but it is a situation that quite literally saps a person's strength to do so. In many cases, when a depressed person causes a problem or makes a mistake in public or at work, they do everything they possibly can to make it right in order not to feel more depressed and like a total failure.
Depression also doesn't just happen. Something, whether it is simply being alone for too long and not being able to trust people, or whether it is something drastic like losing family members or finding out your spouse is cheating on you right after you find out you have cancer....
Posting BS like this just makes things worse, you should be ashamed!

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May, 16 2018 at 10:48 am

Very well said.

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Small Town Girl
July, 4 2017 at 10:28 am

It's pathetic that you have to get online anonymously to make fun of others for feeling a certain way. You obviously ARE VERY ill mentally due to the fact that you're making fun of people who truly feel the depths of depression. Next time you have something negative to say about how others feel, just don't.

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Amy Lane
July, 6 2017 at 2:42 pm

You are seriously misinformed. Depression is an illness, not a character flaw. The brain is an organ just like the liver, heart and lungs. It can become ill and cease to function properly. Do you blame someone for getting Alzheimers or a brain tumor? Extensive research has shown that chemical imbalances involving neurotransmitters are a major factor in depression. This can severely affect someone's perception and behavior. I believe people are responsible for their choices, but in the case of depression one cannot simply "choose" to not have symptoms any more than a diabetic can lower their blood suagar just by willing it. The best choice a depressed person can make is to seek medical treatment and emotional support. Unfortunately many do not because of the social stigma associated with mental illness. They are afraid of the judgement that often results from admitting that they have one. I don't doubt that there are some lazy people out there who claim depression as an excuse for their behavior. But to assume that all depressed people are lazy and irresposible is not only wrong, it's cruel and insensitive. They have a serious and sometimes even life threatening illness and are as deserving of support and compassion as anyone else in that situation.
Sorry this got so long but it hit a nerve with me. I have had depression during my life and have known others who did as well. None of us wanted to feel how we felt. We weren't making excuses or seeking attention. It's like being lost in a dark tangled forest and not seeing any way out. My mother-in-law criticized me and accused me of being "lazy" and "no good" for her son. I was already feeling worthless and her scorn almost drove me over the edge to suicide. Thankfully for me, my husband was supportive and I got help and recovered. Not everyone is so blessed. So I implore you to be a part of the solution and not the problem. Learn about an illness and have the facts before you disparage someone and cause unintentional harm.

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ramona rashid
July, 11 2017 at 5:14 pm

Hi Amy that is so true I do suffer from something I don't know maybe some kind of imbalances where I don't know how to make my self happy and don't lack of activity I don't want to do please tell me who help you thanks.marry with kids don't know about love living like a different person

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January, 17 2019 at 4:27 pm

Same I think that I suffer from something because I constantly negatively self-talk and always want to to do something but can't find the motivation or energy to do so?!

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March, 14 2019 at 2:07 am

Dear Amy,
I read your post about deppression. I am deppressed and cant seem to get better. Can I have your contact information such as whatsapp or anything and ask a few questions regarding how you got better? Thx so much

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July, 7 2017 at 6:28 am

The only thing that is truly sad us I know why I'm on this site. I'm here to find answers to better myself because we hate pity. But honestly better question is why are you on this site? I envy you. I wish I could just make myself be normal and angry and work hard. That would be heaven to me.

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June Gamble
July, 13 2017 at 6:27 am

Well your comment has just about tipped me over the edge. I'm ashamed of my illness & people you just re-enforce how useless I am, no use to anyone and not fit to live. You've made my mind up for me.

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Leanne Brown
July, 18 2017 at 3:40 am

June, I hope you are doing better today. I am on this site because I am struggling with this terrible illness. Reading the comments from mean hearted people is very painful. I think perhaps they just don't feel compassion. Hang in there. I hope you can find even 1 thing today that is beautiful to you and helps to heal your heart. Your comment hit home to me because I feel much the way you do. After reading your words I felt I must respond so you know that I, a stranger, understand how valuable and significant you are. Feel pity for others that respond with cruelty. We should never allow them to make us feel small. I feel sorry for them.

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Barbara Matthews
November, 29 2018 at 9:44 am

Leanne Brown We are never alone with Depression. It is no different than a physical illness. I dread the winter months as I suffer from S.A.D. Seasonal Affective Disorder. I have meds to take for this condition but no longer seem to help. I may ask my MD to change to a different type of med.

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July, 13 2017 at 3:06 pm

Hey, Kev Man. I’m guessing you have someone in your life who deals with depression. Several years ago I was hospitalized for major depression. I’ve been dealing with it since then, against my will and my choice. I certainly didn’t wake up one day and decide that this disease would practically rule my life, and my family’s life. It had devastating affects on my family, and they were frustrated and angry at times. So much of what I was unable to do fell to them. They didn't understand chronic major depression, and how could they? They’d never experienced it. Their anger and frustration only added to my (guilt and) depression, which further exacerbated their anger and frustration. I asked my therapist what I could do to try and explain this illness to them. She answered, “It’s not your job to educate your family on this mental illness. My advice would be to tell your loved ones, ‘I can’t explain it to you, as I don’t fully understand it myself. If you love me, please educate yourself about it.’” I did tell them this, and thankfully they did educate themselves. In fact many of them even participated in my therapy sessions. They learned ways to help me, and ways not to enable me. I can certainly understand your frustration! Major depression, and all mental illness, affects the entire family. I hope you get some help for yourself. The more you understand, the more you’ll learn that there are ways to protect yourself and be more at peace. Best of luck to you.

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A person
July, 17 2017 at 4:23 pm

Be careful with the words you choose in life and assumptions you make. Your life could change and you may actually lose someone, be abused or suffer ptsd . These things lead to depression. Maybe you had good parents and a perfect life. No matter ones illness we are all equal. You shouldn't be so prideful because like I said things can change for you in a heartbeat.

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July, 31 2017 at 11:17 pm

I have had depression for 15 years, I am now 38 and I have never missed a day of work. I have fought and will continue to do so. You are so incredibly ignorant.

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not lazy s
March, 16 2018 at 5:38 pm

Rachel, I have been depressed most of my life. Then lost my husband 11 years ago. Had to keep the house and take care of the kids. Now the kids are grown and I am 57 years old. For the last year I have been late for work every day. I just can't get out of bed on time. How did you do it? What can I do? This just exacerbates my feelings of uselessness.

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March, 8 2019 at 1:14 am

Hey not lazy s? I've been able to define "calm"... I say that, for me it's hard to quit smoking cigarettes. We're all different too, I could say that I'd like to find a way to get well rested and gain natural energy in order to be and stay completely and consistently motivated... I don't want to be wired out? I just need to understand why I'm schizophrenic?

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Compassion for humanity
June, 30 2018 at 3:10 pm

Wow Kev!
It’s sad to see how little empathy you have for others. I found myself suffering from depression when and a seven-year-old child died in my swimming pool. I found myself suffering from depression when my mother was diagnosed with cancer. Recently I found myself suffering from depression when my husband was diagnosed with bladder cancer and we have three small children that need their father. Some people suffer from depression from pro longed sadness of their childhood it just sticks to you and becomes part of the Fiber of who you are. For me I know I can explain my depression as feeling sadness for so long that I forgot what happiness ever felt like. And even in events or times where everything seems OK and I feel stupid for feeling tired and down I can’t help it I have felt this sadness for so long happiness is hard to attain. Depression is real and trust me no one wants to feel like crap for most of their life. It becomes an illness unfortunately. I do try to snap myself out of it and keep busy and remind myself that life is good, It takes a lot of honest effort. Kev, before you judge someone You should try stepping in their shoes and maybe you could help someone instead of hurting them. Imagine if I just told you Someone you love dearly will die today imagine caring that sadness always regardless of how great your life may seem, that’s the depression many people feel on a daily basis.

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July, 3 2018 at 5:32 pm

Hello Kev Man,
Glad to see you work hard but if u ever get stuck with the serious illness of depression you will understand what it entails. You speak in ignorance about depression. Telling a person who has clinical depression to work hard every day is like telling a person that is blind to open their eyes and drive down a busy highway. You have no idea what you are talking about or what your "brain" is thinking. No one knows an illness until they experience it firsthand. Hopefully, you never eat your cruel words.

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Thobekile Ndlovu
July, 8 2018 at 2:14 pm


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Dale Heath
July, 14 2018 at 12:45 pm

We feel bad enough as it is. It's like you are saying to me, "Hey loser! Why aren't you seven feet tall. Just be seven feet tall." Understand, we don't have that thing, whatever it is, that you have that lets you 'pick up the slack'. (By the way, you haven't had to pick up any of MY slack. I've always supported myself.) We wish we had that thing, but it just isn't there; like an amputees missing limb. I wish you could step into my reality for a few days. My IQ has been measured at 132, 137,142, & 148. I have seven years of post-secondary education. I could have been anything, but instead I've had about 80 jobs (well, maybe really only 35 or 40) over my 70 years. We struggle just to meet with the bare necessities. It sometimes feels like the world standing on us. So, please excuse us for any inconvenience this has caused you.

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November, 16 2018 at 1:39 am

Regardless that this is an old post, I wanted to comment my thoughts on this immature reply you so crudely felt the need to share.
Honestly, I feel sorry for you here because you must be a very angry person inside....maybe you didn’t get the proper love and attention you needed as an adolescent and prob lacked the proper education in the social world , which then framed your mind with only one track with the inability to understand kindness human decency. If you get off on seeking out and crudely bashing people who are only looking for support from others that are sharing similar life battles and whatnot,(note, none of which you clearly relate) then unfortunately, you are below average not only on a mental level, but a character level too. Maybe try smiling once in a while. Life is not that ugly man. ;)

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vivienne leijonhufvud
February, 10 2019 at 9:03 am

Well put Kev Man, you wouldn't be a Doc would you? Just finished reading Adam Kay's excellent book about Jnr. Drs. underpaid, underappreciated, bullied by nursing staff who can be a pain in the butt. Worked with them in London so full of themselves 75% of them! Yep I get depression and I'm on this page to find out if I'm being a lazy toad or just plain tired of fighting battles. The latest being a 77 year old philandering husband of 25 years who hadn't the presence of mind to use a condom when playing away from home! Jeeze some men just never grow up and face responsibility! Listening to Mozart and am about to go lay the fire and find another good book to read and yep I don't do my housework as diligently as I used to do so what? There's only me and the dogs and there are days I could strangle old Max. Almost every morning I have to clean up a hard mass of turds scattered across the floor. The poor old boy is incontinent & I keep hoping he'll drop dead naturally rather than have him put down. Sorry about spelling errors in earlier comments people.

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July, 3 2019 at 4:25 pm

I hate to say this, but I think you have may have already gotten your wish, Kev.

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August, 5 2017 at 7:13 am

What is wrong with you? Depression isn't laziness, it's not being motivated because you don't see the point in life. I don't want people to feel sorry for me, and trust me you DO NOT want depression, it's horrible. Depression isn't laziness, it's lack of hope that you'll ever be happy, its thinking that no one likes you, it's feeling that you are not worth anything, depression is when you don't care about yourself or life anymore, not because you're too lazy to, but because we just can't see the point - it's how the depressed mind works. Would you tell someone with Alzheimer's to just 'snap out of it'? It's like telling a deaf person to listen harder, or a blind person to look harder.

Dale Heath
July, 14 2018 at 12:52 pm

Oh, KEV MAN. Just one more thing. Imagine what life would feel like if you never, ever could feel happy about anything.

vivienne leijonhufvud
February, 10 2019 at 9:09 am

Be honest Eric most depression goes back so far we don't realize it. One male friend suffers from personality disorder and that which triggered it was selfish parents around the '50's (who like many were probably suffering from PTSD from WWII). A gifted boy with an enquiring mind who made it high status. The downpoint which made the whole thing escalate was his best mate ran off with his wife and two boys - this was nearly 20 years ago he still has bouts of laziness, lack of motivation and severe depression. Kev Man isn't cruel just realistic. Mate is about have an exhibition of his work this time next year he could be on the brink again so we rally round and support that's what friends should do even if it's only by email. Do your best to keep well Eric.

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August, 20 2017 at 11:33 pm

You don't get it. Most people with Depression do get up and do what thy have to do everyday. They just have no desire to or things fall apart in private. I would love to have a mentally healthy brain and sit up on my pedestal and judge people. You have no idea what it's like to get up everyday and feel nothing. no joy, no accomplishment, not even sadness. Just to go through the motions each and everyday because it's the only way to survive, and you're not even sure you want to do that. Go away and take your negativity elsewhere. We're just trying to live our lives the best we can.

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July, 6 2018 at 11:22 pm

Hi Jo,
I have the same sense of life as yourself. Today is Saturday here. I started the day at 10 am! Breakfast, then tidied the house, did the washing and the usual Weekend tasks. But inwardly just sensing, there must be more to life than this.,
Local time here 4.11 in the afternoon, soon I will go out and get my washing off the line, just where has the day gone?
My Doctor simply said remain on your current prescription, it all appears to be going well for you.
But inwardly, I feel that I should be doing more, but just cant get the energy to do anything.
If I do find a sudden urge to complete a task, I start it, if all goes well, I feel ok. But should things not go good, I simply give up, and return to my dismal self and fall further into the depths of depression!
I hope I have not interrupted you, but just wanted to tell you the you are not the only person in the world in this situation!
Thanks, at least I now know that I am not the only "pleb" on the world! suffering this situation.
Keep smiling and may God Bless you.

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September, 1 2017 at 12:31 am

Kev, considering this very article says to not mistake depression for laziness, and you've done exactly that.

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September, 10 2017 at 7:13 am

Wow. Please don't wish to feel the way I do. You have no idea if you've never experienced it. There are days that I hide in bed, away from the world. I have hurt myself physically. I have thought about suicide many, many times but I couldn't do that to my family. Most of my adult life I've felt like I fell into a black hole and I'm trying to climb out. Sometimes I get so close to the top and start to get out, but every time something knocks me right down to the bottom of the hole again. It is an illness, it is a crippling, devastating, life altering illness. And I would give anything to not have it. Please don't ever wish for something that will hurt you so much.

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Jesus Hermosillo
September, 11 2017 at 11:56 am

Kev: Actually, there is a lot of suffering in mental illness. While there seem to be some nice, enviable things about the attention any sick person might receive sometimes---like warm chicken soup in bed when you have a bad cold---these little perks don't at all make up for the emotional pain and anxiety of mental illness. It's made all the worse because most people don't understand the concept of mental illness, only physical illness.

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