It's Okay to Say: No Way! to Teen Sex

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C'MON - EVERYBODY'S DOING IT!

NOT TRUE. That old line is a trick. Don't let yourself be fooled by it. It's true that about half of all young people have had sexual intercourse. It's also true that ABOUT HALF HAVE NOT. And many of those who've done "it" didn't really want to - they let themselves get talked into it.

Many teens are pushed or manipulated into having sexual intercourse.Maybe your friends are trying to push you into having intercourse. They may tell you, "It will prove you're a man," or "It will make you feel like a real woman."

Or you may feel that "having sex" is the only way to keep someone interested in you. The person you're going with may even try to pressure you with lines like, "If you really love me, you'll prove it," or "If you don't do it with me, someone else will."

THE REAL QUESTION IS: WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU?

YOU DECIDE! You may wonder, "Why am I so eager and, at the same time, I want to hold back?" Maybe it's because you feel what millions of young people feel - sexual intercourse can be a big mistake when you're not ready. You can't just borrow someone else's decision. It might not work for you. You are a one-of-a-kind person who needs a one-of-a-kind decision. You have to make your own choice - the one that's best for you.

DECIDING IS EASY - SAYING 'NO' ISN'T.

BUT IT CAN BE DONE. We are all sexual and want to love and to be loved. So we all have to make decisions about being sexual. Because we are all different, we make different decisions.

Your friends have different looks and personalities. Their needs and what's important to them also vary. Each wants something different from life. Sometimes, your lifestyle harmonizes with theirs. Other times, it conflicts. Dealing with conflict is part of growing up and becoming independent. You have to make a lot of decisions. Handling relationships, shaping plans for the future, and making healthy, responsible choices along the way - including decisions about sex - that's what growing up is all about!


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It can feel like an emotional roller coaster. But EVERYONE goes through it. Even your parents went through it. That's why talking with them may help you sort out your own thoughts and feelings. They may be more understanding than you may think.

What to Do?

BE HONEST. Say what you really feel when you and your friends talk about sex. Your friends may be too shy. Or feel that they have to pretend to be "cool." It may be hardest to be "real" with someone you especially like. Difficult as it may be, if you're "real" with your friends, they may be "real" with you.

Being "real" can help us understand why some people have sexual intercourse before they're ready. Many of these reasons aren't very sexy. They include:

  • trying to cure loneliness or unhappiness
  • wanting to be more popular
  • using physical sex to avoid close, caring relationships
  • wanting to "prove" you're not gay or lesbian
  • hoping to discover the "fireworks" that go with sex on TV and CDs and in movies, magazines, and books
  • believing "the first time" is not important so just get it over with
  • getting back at parents
  • not using good judgment because you're high on alcohol or other drugs

SEXUAL INTERCOURSE for these reasons may not be rewarding. And there's always the risk of pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection. But no matter what the reason, intercourse involves two people with individual thoughts and feelings. You have to live with yours.

So it's okay to say "no." You don't have to explain, but you can give your reasons if you want to - "I've made up my mind to wait," or, "I'm not ready to get involved" - say whatever makes you most comfortable. It may help to practice saying it to yourself before you need to say it to someone else.

MAKING YOUR DECISION means getting to know yourself. Try to think about what sort of person you are and want to be. What kind of life do you want? What work will you do? What training will you need? The more you are sure of yourself, the less likely you are to be flattered or frightened into doing something before you're ready.

Sex is an important part of life. It is not separate from everything else. Respect for ourselves and others is essential in all parts of life - including our sex life. Respect allows us to accept and appreciate each other. It helps us to be thoughtful and trusting of each other. It's not always easy. But it's always important.

What to Do If You Need Help

TALK TO PEOPLE you trust and respect - at home, school, temple, church, mosque, or club.

What if your parents have never talked with you about sex? They may be waiting for you to ask. Go ahead and risk it.

Maybe your place of worship has family life courses or discussion groups.

Some communities and schools have hotlines or peer counselors. Ask if your sexuality education program includes discussions of sexuality AND relationships.

Most Planned Parenthood health centers have counseling programs that you can attend with your parents, or confidential programs that you can go to alone. You can talk with counselors or other teens there. You'll probably meet other young people who've decided that it's cool to say "NO."

To talk with someone at the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you, call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN.

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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). It's Okay to Say: No Way! to Teen Sex, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/its-okay-to-say-no-way-to-teen-sex

Last Updated: August 19, 2014

Sex Therapy? Hang On! Maybe Self-Help Will Do

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If you have the impulse to search out sex therapy for a sexual problem, do so. However, there are two elements of most such therapies that you may do yourself which may prove helpful:

  1. Education about body sexual parts may be accomplished by reading and/or by exploration with a willing partner.
  2. An early feature of sex therapy is often the touching and massaging of one's partner. At first, sexual parts are avoided and then approached days later only if the massage goes well.

New Male Sexuality For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female SexualityOften specific books on sexuality will be helpful. For men or women, I suggest New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld and For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie Barbach.

A Tip for Men Making Love to Women: The old talk of a vaginal orgasm is considered bunk by many experts today. You men reading this will understand what many women want most, if you understand that the woman's vagina is like your testicles, enjoyable and important sexually. But without significant stimulation of the clitoris (analogous to your penis) orgasm and maximum sexual pleasure are not likely.

From the self help psychology book, Be Your Own Therapist.

 


 


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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). Sex Therapy? Hang On! Maybe Self-Help Will Do, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/sex-therapy-maybe-self-help-will-do

Last Updated: April 9, 2016

Exercises to Rekindle Sexual Desire

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To begin, talk about your sexual inhibitions, feelings, anxieties and expectations then ask your partner to agree that penetrative sex will not be an issue for a while. On your own, gently touch and stroke your naked body - lightly massage and caress yourself - perhaps in a warm shower, bath, in bed or on a soft rug, using a water-based lubricant, or body lotion, or soap lather or your own saliva. Think about your sexual feelings - 'listen' with your emotions as your fingers gently touch each part of your body, concentrate on your 'self' and what feelings (emotional and physical) arouse and stimulate you.

When you've become confident about self-stimulation and massage, try these techniques with your partner. Find the right time and place for the exploration to begin - use massage oil, lotion and lubricants if you wish - start slowly and sensuously with no goal other than relaxation, 'two-ness' and feeling good. Recall from your own self-stimulation what touches and caresses a roused or relaxed you and ask your partner to try them. Gently massage, touch and explore your partner's body - find out what stimulates or relaxes your partner, remember to go slowly.

Unless you both feel so inclined, avoid touching each other's genitals, you're aiming to re-acquaint yourself with your partner's body - the pressure of sex (whether from you or your partner) must not be an issue. Don't pressure, or be pressured by your partner to take these exercises too quickly. When you're both ready, start to touch and caress each other's genitals, softly and in tune with what you both desire - and remember to tell each other what is and what isn't a turn-on.

These exercises should continue for as long as it takes both partners to feel confident about having sex together - but remembering that penetration should not necessarily be the goal of each and every sexual encounter.


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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). Exercises to Rekindle Sexual Desire, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/exercises-to-rekindle-sexual-desire

Last Updated: August 19, 2014

How Do I Help Someone With an Eating Disorder?

  • Let the person know you care and you are there to give support. Reach out to the person, instead of focusing on the eating behavior.

  • Don't nag about eating or not eating, or spend your time talking about food or weight-related issues.

  • Encourage the person to seek professional help. Be prepared that your suggestion may be initially met with denial and hostility.

  • Find outside support for yourself. You can talk to a counsellor, doctor, or other professional, or attend a support group for family and friends of someone with an eating disorder.

  • Avoid comments on weight or appearance. Even if you "compliment" someone on losing weight, you may be giving the message that you only like the person because of the weight loss.

  • Read and learn as much as you can about eating disorders. It will help you to understand more what the person is going through.

  • Be patient; overcoming an eating problem takes time and help. It is not just a matter of willpower.

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Gluck, S. (2008, December 12). How Do I Help Someone With an Eating Disorder?, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/eating-disorders/articles/how-do-i-help-someone-with-an-eating-disorder

Last Updated: January 14, 2014

For Teens: When You Discover a Friend is Bulimic or Anorexic

When you learn that a friend suffers deeply from an eating disorder

It can be like a sudden jolt that destroys your picture of the world.

When you learn that a friend suffers from an eating disorder, it can be a sudden jolt that destroys your picture of the world. Here's how to help.Recognizing that such deep rooted, destructive and often deadly pain exists in your peers can be a loss of innocence and an awakening to mortality and the suffering in the human condition. It's a difficult but valuable experience for a person at any age.

If you live a fairly healthy and normal life, it may be difficult and even frightening to hear what her internal experience is. Often people with an eating disorder firmly believe that they are on a destructive path and that their behavior will kill them. Yet, they cannot stop. They know they are killing themselves. Some people are certain that no matter what day it is, they have six months to live from that day. They cannot plan a future or take anything or anyone really seriously since they don't believe they will be alive long enough to follow through on anything.

Some people suffering from eating disorders are so caught up in their illness they have no idea they are sick. But you can see when a friend is dangerously thin and yet is still dieting. You can see when a friend has no time for social relaxation and conversation because she is obsessing about her studies and must exercise two or three hours every day. You see when a friend thinks no one notices or believes she is engaging in normal behavior when she starves herself or seems to be afraid of food or finds ways to excuse herself so she can throw up after eating a meal or a snack with you.

When you discover that someone you know is bulimic or anorexic, you may question your criteria for evaluating the world and the people in it. Often you won't easily identify someone who has an eating disorder.

Some people are skeletal. Some are normally weighted. Some are a little overweight. Some are fat. Some of these people having eating disorders. Some look they way they do for other reasons.

There are some physical symptoms of bulimia and anorexia if the person throws up a lot. For example, their cheeks get puffy -- like a chipmunk -- from swollen glands. The knuckles on their hands can be rough from teeth rubbing against them during self induced vomiting. Enamel on teeth can be eroded. And there is a glazed-over look, what is called a "waxy smile" that accompanies many eating disorders.

Of course, that waxy smile is often considered beautiful, classical, goddess-like, serene, etc. So that perspective of beauty also helps to disguise or hide the eating disorder.

Learning about the secret pain of eating disorders is a sad aspect of coming of age. You can help by learning what you can about eating disorders, how your age group is affected and sharing the information.

You can help particularly by taking good care of yourself. This is help by example. Yes, you can listen to your friend, but don't try to be her therapist. Suggest that she get a therapist so she can constructively work on her healing. Tell her you know that many people find help through Overeaters Anonymous, even people who try not to eat at all.

Don't let yourself feel responsible for her welfare and think that you can show her how to stop her eating disorder. That's like trying to talk or love someone out of a high fever when they have the flu. Your friend's obsessive thinking and compulsive behavior around food are symptoms of her illness. She needs specific treatment in order to recover.

Yet you can help her. The more healthy you are, the more you cherish your gifts of mind, body and spirit, the more you appreciate the caring in your life and the opportunities available to you, the more you will be an example of health and positive youth. This will show young people with eating disorders, whether you recognize them or not, that there is a better way of living.

No guarantees exist. Your friend may criticize you. She may be embarrassed or ashamed with you because you know her secret. She may withdraw her friendship temporarily once you know about her eating disorder. She may find it difficult to face you.

Regardless of these possibilities, your example of kindness and consideration to yourself and others may be a major factor in your friend's healing process. The way you live your life may get her attention now or sometime in the future when you don't even know she is thinking about you. You can show her, in little things that are so normal to you, that you don't think about them; that a healthy way of living well exists. Your being committed to living an honest life based on integrity and health, using your talents to educate yourself and develop your abilities are more than giving gifts to yourself. Your way of life becomes a gift to others. You might, through being a healthy and self-respecting person, inspire your friend to seek help and begin her path to health and self-respect.

So when you discover your friend is bulimic or anorexic, be kind, be patient and stay strong in your own healthy ways of living. Health can be catching.

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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). For Teens: When You Discover a Friend is Bulimic or Anorexic, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/eating-disorders/articles/for-teens-when-you-discover-a-friend-is-bulimic-or-anorexic

Last Updated: January 14, 2014

Altering the Brain's Chemistry

Doctors suggest using nutritional treatments to elevate mood and relieve depression symptoms as alternative to antidepressant drugs.

Depression is one of the most frequent psychological problems encountered in medical practice. Some studies say 13 to 20 percent of American adults exhibit some depressive symptoms. The mortality rate among those who are depressed is four times greater than those without depression - major depression accounts for 60 percent of all suicides.

Yet, despite this professional recognition and the fact that depression is a treatable condition, only about a third of depressed patients receive appropriate intervention.

While the exact etiology of depression is unknown, numerous factors appear to contribute. These include genetics, life/event sensitization and biochemical changes.

Family, twin and adoption studies demonstrate that predisposition toward depression can be inherited. In addition, stressful life events can contribute to depression; most studies concur that the likelihood of a depressive episode is five to six times greater six months after events such as early parental loss, job loss or divorce. The link between depression and stressful life events has been conceptualized in the form of the sensitization model, which proposes that prior exposure to stressful life events sensitizes the brain's limbic system to the degree that subsequently less stress is needed to produce a mood disorder. Many of the current biochemical theories of depression focus on the biogenic amines, which are a group of chemical compounds important in neurotransmission--most importantly norepinephrine, serotonin and, to a lesser extent, dopamine, acetylcholine and epinephrine.

Antidepressant medications, which address the brain's biochemistry, include monoamine oxidase (MAO) inhibitors, tricyclic antidepressants and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. MAOs increase norepinephrine levels, while tricyclics essentially enhance norepinephrine transmission. Serotonin, in particular, has been the subject of intense research during the past 25 years, indicating its importance in the pathophysiology of depression. Basically, a functional deficiency in serotonin results in depression.

Amino Acid Supplements for Treating Depression

Doctors suggest altering brain's chemistry using nutritional treatments to elevate mood and relieve depressive symptoms as alternative to antidepressant drugs.The nutritional treatment of depression includes dietary modifications, supportive treatment with vitamins and minerals, and supplementation with specific amino acids, which are precursors to neurotransmitters. Dietary modification and vitamin and mineral supplementation in some cases reduce the severity of depression or result in an improvement in general well-being. However, these interventions are usually considered adjunctive, since they are not typically effective by themselves as a treatment for clinical depression. On the other hand, supplementation with the amino acids L-tyrosine and D,L-phenylalanine can in many cases be used as an alternative to antidepressant drugs. Another particularly effective treatment is the amino acid L-tryptophan.

L-Tyrosine is the precursor to the biogenic amine norepinephrine and may therefore be valuable to the subset of people who fail to respond to all medications except amphetamines. Such people excrete much less than the usual amounts of 3-methoxy-4-hydroxyphenylglycol, the byproduct of norepinephrine breakdown, suggesting a deficiency of brain norepinephrine.

One clinical study detailed two patients with long-standing depression who failed to respond to MAO inhibitor and tricyclic drugs as well as electroconvulsive therapy. One patient required 20 mg/day of dextroamphetamine to remain depression-free, and the other required 15 mg/day of D,L-amphetamine. Within two weeks of starting L-tyrosine, 100 mg/kg once a day before breakfast, the first patient was able to eliminate all dextroamphetamine, and the second was able to reduce the intake of D,L-amphetamine to 5 mg/day. In another case report, a 30-year-old female with a two-year history of depression showed marked improvement after two weeks of treatment with L-tyrosine, 100 mg/kg/day in three divided doses. No side effects were seen.

L-Phenylalanine, the naturally occurring form of phenylalanine, is converted in the body to L-tyrosine. D-phenylalanine, which does not normally occur in the body or in food, is metabolized to phenylethylamine (PEA), an amphetaminelike compound that occurs normally in the human brain and has been shown to have mood-elevating effects. Decreased urinary levels of PEA (suggesting a deficiency) have been found in some depressed patients. Although PEA can be synthesized from L-phenylalanine, a large proportion of this amino acid is preferentially converted to L-tyrosine. D-phenylalanine is therefore the preferred substrate for increasing the synthesis of PEA--although L-phenylalanine would also have a mild antidepressant effect because of its conversion to L-tyrosine and its partial conversion to PEA. Because D-phenylalanine is not widely available, the mixture D,L-phenylalanine is often used when an antidepressant effect is desired.

Studies of D,L-phenylalanine's efficacy show that it has promise as an antidepressant. Additional research is needed to determine the optimal dosage and which types of patients are most likely to respond to treatment.


Depression Treatment Using Vitamin and Mineral Therapy

Vitamin and mineral deficiencies can cause depression. Correcting deficiencies, when present, often relieves depression. However, even if a deficiency cannot be demonstrated, nutritional supplementation may improve symptoms in selected groups of depressed patients.

Vitamin B6, or pyridoxine, is the cofactor for enzymes that convert L-tryptophan to serotonin and L-tyrosine to norepinephrine. Consequently, vitamin B6 deficiency might result in depression. One person volunteered to eat a pyridoxine-free diet for 55 days. The resultant depression was alleviated soon after supplementation with pyridoxine was begun.

While severe vitamin B6 deficiency is rare, marginal vitamin B6 status may be relatively common. A study using a sensitive enzymatic assay suggested the presence of subtle vitamin B6 deficiency among a group of 21 healthy individuals. Vitamin B6 deficiency may also be common in depressed patients. In one study, 21 percent of 101 depressed outpatients had low plasma levels of the vitamin. In another study, four of seven depressed patients had subnormal plasma concentrations of pyridoxal phosphate, the biologically active form of vitamin B6. Although low vitamin B6 levels could be a result of dietary changes associated with depression, vitamin B6 deficiency could also be a contributing factor to the depression.

Depression is also a relatively common side effect of oral contraceptives. The symptoms of contraceptive-induced depression differ from those found in endogenous and reactive depression. Pessimism, dissatisfaction, crying and tension predominate, whereas sleep disturbance and appetite disorders are uncommon. Of 22 women with depression associated with oral contraceptive use, 11 showed biochemical evidence of vitamin B6 deficiency. In a double-blind, crossover trial, women with vitamin B6 deficiency improved after treatment with pyridoxine, 2 mg twice a day for two months. Women who were not deficient in the vitamin did not respond to supplementation.

These studies indicate vitamin B6 supplementation is valuable for a subset of depressed patients. Because of its role in monoamine metabolism, this vitamin should be investigated as possible adjunctive treatment for other patients with depression. A typical vitamin B6 dose is 50 mg/day.

Folic acid deficiency may result from dietary deficiency, physical or psychological stress, excessive alcohol consumption, malabsorption or chronic diarrhea. Deficiency may also occur during pregnancy or with the use of oral contraceptives, other estrogen preparations or anticonvulsants. Psychiatric symptoms of folate deficiency include depression, insomnia, anorexia, forgetfulness, hyperirritability, apathy, fatigue and anxiety.

Serum folate levels were measured in 48 hospitalized patients: 16 with depression, 13 psychiatric patients who were not depressed and 19 medical patients. Depressed patients had significantly lower serum folate concentrations than did patients in the other two groups. Depressed patients with low serum folate levels had higher depression ratings on the Hamilton Depression Scale than did depressed patients with normal folate levels.

These findings suggest that folic acid deficiency may be a contributing factor in some cases of depression. Serum folate levels should be determined in all depressed patients who are at risk for folic acid deficiency. The usual dose of folic acid is 0.4 to 1 mg/day. It should be noted that folic acid supplementation can mask the diagnosis of vitamin B12 deficiency when the complete blood count is used as the sole screening test. Patients in whom vitamin B12 deficiency is suspected and who are taking folic acid should have their serum vitamin B12 measured.

Vitamin B12 deficiency can also manifest as depression. In depressed patients with documented vitamin B12 deficiency, parenteral (intravenous) administration of the vitamin has resulted in dramatic improvement. Vitamin B12, 1 mg/day for two days (route of administration not specified), also produced rapid resolution of postpartum psychosis in eight women.

Vitamin C, as the cofactor for tryptophan-5-hydroxylase, catalyzes the hydroxylation of tryptophan to serotonin. Vitamin C may therefore be valuable for patients with depression associated with low levels of serotonin. In one study, 40 chronic psychiatric inpatients received 1 g/day of ascorbic acid or placebo for three weeks, in double-blind fashion. In the vitamin C group, significant improvements were seen in depressive, manic and paranoid symptom complexes, as well as in overall functioning.

Magnesium deficiency can cause numerous psychological changes, including depression. The symptoms of magnesium deficiency are nonspecific and include poor attention, memory loss, fear, restlessness, insomnia, tics, cramps and dizziness. Plasma magnesium levels have been found to be significantly lower in depressed patients than in controls. These levels increased significantly after recovery. In a study of more than 200 patients with depression and/or chronic pain, 75 percent had white blood cell magnesium levels below normal. In many of these patients, intravenous magnesium administration led to rapid resolution of symptoms. Muscle pain responded most frequently, but depression also improved.

Magnesium has also been used to treat premenstrual mood changes. In a double-blind trial, 32 women with premenstrual syndrome were randomly assigned to receive 360 mg/day of magnesium or placebo for two months. The treatments were given daily from day 15 of the menstrual cycle until the onset of menstruation. Magnesium was significantly more effective than placebo in relieving premenstrual symptoms related to mood changes.

These studies suggest that magnesium deficiency may be a factor in some cases of depression. Dietary surveys have shown that many Americans fail to achieve the Recommended Dietary Allowance for magnesium. As a result, subtle magnesium deficiency may be common in the United States. A nutritional supplement that contains 200-400 mg/day of magnesium may therefore improve mood in some patients with depression.


Phytomedicine Considerations

* St. John's wort (Hypericum perforatum) as a standardized extract is licensed in Germany and other European countries as a treatment for mild to moderate depression, anxiety and sleep disorders.

St. John's wort has a complex and diverse chemical makeup. Hypericin and pseudohypericin have received most of the attention based on their contributions to both the antidepressive and antiviral properties of St. John's wort. This explains why most modern St. John's wort extracts are standardized to contain measured amounts of hypericin. Recent research, however, indicates that the medicinal actions of St. John's wort can be ascribed to other mechanisms of action and also to the complex interplay of many constituents.

While St. John's wort's ability to act as an antidepressant is not fully understood, previous literature points to its ability to inhibit MAOs. MAOs act by inhibiting MAO-A or -B isozymes, thereby increasing synaptic levels of the biogenic amines, especially norepinephrine. This earlier research showed that St. John's wort extracts not only inhibit MAO-A and MAO-B but also reduce the availability of serotonin receptors, resulting in the impaired uptake of serotonin by brain neurons.

More than 20 clinical studies have been completed using several different St. John's wort extracts. Most have shown antidepressant action either greater than placebo or equal in action to standard prescription antidepressant drugs. A recent review analyzed 12 controlled clinical trials - nine were placebo-controlled and three compared St. John's wort extract to antidepressant drugs maprotiline or imipramine. All trials showed greater antidepressant effect with St. John's wort compared with placebo and comparable results with St. John's wort as with the standard antidepressant medications. The first U.S. government-sanctioned clinical trial of St. John's wort, a three-year study sponsored by the Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine, based in Washington, D.C., found that St. John's wort was not effective in treating major depression, but agreed more clinical trials were needed to test the herb's effectiveness in mild to moderate depression.

Dosage is typically based on hypericin concentration in the extract. The minimum daily hypericin dosage recommended is approximately 1 mg. For example, an extract standardized to contain 0.2 percent hypericin would require a daily dosage of 500 mg, usually given in two divided dosages. Clinical studies have used a St. John's wort extract standardized to 0.3 percent hypericin at a dose of 300 mg three times daily.

The German Commission E Monograph for St. John's wort lists no contraindications to its use during pregnancy and lactation. However, more safety studies are needed before St. John's wort is recommended for this population.

Ginkgo (Ginkgo biloba) extract, while clearly not a primary treatment of choice for most patients with major depression, should be considered an alternative for elderly patients with depression resistant to standard drug therapy. This is because depression is often an early sign of cognitive decline and cerebrovascular insufficiency in elderly patients. Frequently described as resistant depression, this form of depression is often unresponsive to standard antidepressant drugs or phytomedicines like St. John's wort. One study showed a global reduction in regional cerebral blood flow in depressed patients older than 50 when compared with age-matched, healthy controls.

In that study, 40 patients, ages 51 to 78, with a diagnosis of resistant depression (insufficient response to treatment with tricyclic antidepressants for at least three months), were randomized to receive either Ginkgo biloba extract or placebo for eight weeks. Patients in the ginkgo group received 80 mg of the extract three times daily. During the study, patients remained on their antidepressant drugs. In patients treated with ginkgo, there was a decline in the median Hamilton Depression Scale scores from 14 to 7 after four weeks. This score was further reduced by 4.5 at eight weeks. There was a one-point reduction in the placebo group after eight weeks. In addition to the significant improvement in symptoms of depression for the ginkgo group, there was also a noted improvement in overall cognitive function. No side effects were reported.

Many nutrition-oriented practitioners have found that the answer to depression is as simple as one's diet. A diet low in sugar and refined carbohydrates (with small, frequent meals) can produce symptomatic relief in some depressed patients. Individuals most likely to respond to this dietary approach are those who develop symptoms in the late morning or late afternoon or after missing a meal. In these patients, ingestion of sugar provides transient relief, followed by an exacerbation of symptoms several hours later.

Donald Brown, N.D., teaches herbal medicine and therapeutic nutrition at Bastyr University, Bothell, Wash. Alan R. Gaby, M.D., is past president of the American Holistic Medical Association. Ronald Reichert, N.D., is an expert in European phytotherapy and has an active medical practice in Vancouver, B.C.

Source: Excerpted with permission from Depression (Natural Product Research Consultants, 1997).

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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). Altering the Brain's Chemistry, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/depression/articles/altering-the-brains-chemistry

Last Updated: June 23, 2016

Serendipity Co-dependence E-book

Serendipity Topics Available in E-book Format

Toma recently compiled his recovery topics into book format. He is offering his first electronic book: Serendipity: A Journal of Recovery exclusively to readers who visit the Serendipity website.

The book is published in Portable Document Format (PDF) and is approximately 82 pages in length. It includes a table of contents, plus a bonus index of the key recovery concepts and principles emphasized in the Serendipity website topics.

To read the book, you will need Acrobat Reader software, available FREE from the Adobe website at: http://www.adobe.com.

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Staff, H. (2008, December 12). Serendipity Co-dependence E-book, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/relationships/serendipity/serendipity-co-dependence-e-book

Last Updated: August 7, 2014

Antidepressant Medication Side-Effects in Postpartum Depression

Side Effects of Depression Medications After Childbirth

Two side effects of medications for postnatal depression are especially problematic for new mothers: weight gain and loss of libido.

Note: You should always discuss medication side effects with your doctor. Stopping or changing your medication on your own could be disastrous! This information is intended as an informational resource to help you communicate effectively with your physician.

Weight Gain

Two side effects of antidepressant medications for postnatal depression are problematic for new mothers - weight gain and loss of libido.Dissatisfaction with physical appearance is a common concern for new mothers, many of whom haven't made it back into their pre-pregnancy clothes yet. If medication might slow down weight loss, or worse yet, cause weight gain, it may seem that the cure is worse than the disease. The older class of antidepressants, called tricyclics or heterocyclics, are the biggest culprits for increasing appetite and weight. They include amitriptyline (Elavil), doxepin (Sinequon), imipramine (Tofranil), Nortriptyline (Pamelor) and clomipramine (Anafranil). Unfortunately, these medications are felt by some doctors to be a better choice for breast-feeding mothers than the newer medications which don't usually lead to weight gain.

Of course, weight gain may be beneficial for a woman who has lost weight DUE to postpartum depression--for example, a woman who is wearing a smaller size than before pregnancy.

Antidepressants which do not generally cause weight gain include Effexor (venlafaxine), Paxil (paroxetine), Prozac (fluoxetine), Luvox (fluvoxamine), Zoloft (sertraline), and Wellbutrin (bupropion). Medications for anxiety (such as temazepam, alprazolam, clonazepam and buspirone) also do not usually cause weight gain. Medications for postpartum psychosis including "antipsychotic" or "neuroleptic" medications as well as mood stabilizers including lithium, carbamazepine and valproic acid may all cause weight gain and increase appetite.

What can be done about weight gain? Ask your doctor whether a blood test might help determine whether a lower dose of a tricyclic might be as effective, since increased appetite is less problematic at lower doses. Let your doctor know about your concerns, and be sure to find out whether he/she can prescribe an equally effective alternative. Commit yourself to an exercise program, which may have mental health benefits, too. Finally, revise your own timetable about when and what you "should" weigh--isn't feeling well right now the single most important thing?

Fortunately, weight gain caused by medication is typically reversible once the medication is stopped. Try to accept how you look right now, perhaps by reminding yourself what a gift feeling good is to yourself and your baby.

Sexuality and Antidepressants

Unfortunately, the very medications that don't cause weight gain may lead to sexual side effects in as many as half of women recovering from postnatal depression. This isn't too surprising, since the drugs work on two separate neurotransmitters, each of which affect distinct parts of the brain and body.

The medications most likely to interfere with sexual desire or inhibit orgasm are those that affect serotonin. They include Anafranil, Effexor, Luvox, Paxil, Prozac, and Zoloft. Unfortunately, since these antidepressants are not generally sedating, many doctors prefer them for new mothers who have to be able to rouse themselves at night to look after the baby. One serotonin enhancing antidepressant ("SSRI's") that doesn't interfere with sexual pleasure is called Serzone(nefazodone)-- its drawback is that it's also more sedating that the SSRI's that do cause sexual side effects. Wellbutrin also does not alter sex drive or pleasure.

What can be done about it? First, this side effect may spontaneously resolve after a month or two. Second, talk with your doctor about whether a lower dose might be equally effective without the side effect. Ask your psychiatrist to tell you about other strategies which might help, including co-medication with something that reverses this side effect.

Most importantly: communicate with your partner. Be sure your sexual partner realizes that this is a reversible side effect, and not caused by problems in the relationship. New mothers--with or without postpartum depression--don't have a lot of sexual energy. As the baby begins to sleep through the night, and your body gets back to normal, you may find that your sex drive is better too. If you haven't communicated well about sexual matters up until now, view this as an opportunity to improve the marital relationship by expressing to your partner what feels good.

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Valerie Davis Raskin, M.D., Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Chicago, author of When Words Are Not Enough: The Women's Prescription for Depression and Anxiety and co-author of This Isn't What I Expected: Overcoming Postpartum Depression has contributed the following on side effects of medications for postpartum women. Article last updated on July 28, 1997.

 

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APA Reference
Staff, H. (2008, December 12). Antidepressant Medication Side-Effects in Postpartum Depression, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/depression/articles/antidepressant-medication-side-effects-in-postpartum-depression

Last Updated: June 23, 2016

Safety of ADHD Medications Called into Question

For a small group of children and adults with ADHD, ADHD medications can have serious side-effects.

Just how safe are ADHD drugs?

For a small group of children and adults with ADHD, ADHD medications can have serious side-effects including heart proIn early 2006, two FDA advisory committees met to discuss health risks associated with ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) medications.

One FDA review of data concerning serious cardiovascular adverse events in patients taking usual doses of ADHD medications revealed reports of sudden death in patients with underlying serious heart problems or defects, and reports of stroke and heart attack in adults with certain risk factors.

Another FDA review of ADHD medicines revealed a slight increased risk (about 1 per 1,000) for drug-related psychiatric adverse events, such as hearing voices, becoming suspicious for no reason, or becoming manic, even in patients who did not have previous psychiatric problems.

In the end, the pediatric panel cited evidence from clinical trial studies that the incidence of psychiatric events was very small. The panelists also explained that most reports of cardiovascular events were associated with other risk factors, such as underlying heart disease or heart defects.

The FDA recommended that children, adolescents, or adults who are being considered for treatment with ADHD drugs work with their physician or other health care professional to develop a treatment plan that includes a careful health history and evaluation of current status, particularly for cardiovascular and psychiatric problems (including assessment for a family history of such problems).

Are ADHD medications safe for your child?

Dr. William Barbaresi, chairman of the Division of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics and a co-director of the Mayo Clinic Dana Child Development and Learning Disorders Program says that ADHD drugs are safe.

"ADHD medications have been prescribed longer than most every other class of medications currently available," says Barbaresi. "There's more research literature available on ADHD medications than on a large percentage of medications currently prescribed within the United States. As long as physicians follow appropriate guidelines and monitor patients for side effects, ADHD medications should be considered safe."

As for effectiveness, Barbaresi says "stimulants — which are the medications most frequently prescribed for ADHD — not only help children with ADHD in the short term but also are effective in the long run. For example, treatment with stimulants is associated with decreased risk of development of substance abuse disorders and decreased emergency room utilization."

The ADHD medicines that were the focus of the revised labeling and new Patient Medication Guides ordered by the FDA include the following 15 ADHD drugs:

  • Adderall (mixed salts of a single entity amphetamine product) Tablets
  • Adderall XR (mixed salts of a single entity Amphetamine product) Extended-Release Capsules
  • Concerta (methylphenidate hydrochloride) Extended-Release Tablets
  • Daytrana (methylphenidate) Transdermal System
  • Desoxyn (methamphetamine HCl) Tablets
  • Dexedrine (dextroamphetamine sulfate) Spansule Capsules and Tablets
  • Focalin (dexmethylphenidate hydrochloride) Tablets
  • Focalin XR (dexmethylphenidate hydrochloride) Extended-Release Capsules
  • Metadate CD (methylphenidate hydrochloride) Extended-Release Capsules
  • Methylin (methylphenidate hydrochloride) Oral Solution
  • Methylin (methylphenidate hydrochloride) Chewable Tablets
  • Ritalin (Methylphenidate hydrochloride) Tablets
  • Ritalin SR (methylphenidate hydrochloride) Sustained-Release Tablets
  • Ritalin LA (Methylphenidate hydrochloride) Extended-Release Capsules
  • Strattera (atomoxetine HCl) Capsules

Sources:

  • FDA
  • William Barbaresi, M.D., developmental and behavioral pediatrician at Mayo Clinic


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APA Reference
Gluck, S. (2008, December 12). Safety of ADHD Medications Called into Question, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/adhd/articles/how-safe-are-adhd-drugs

Last Updated: February 14, 2016

Distorted Body Image Can Have Tragic Results

Why is it that so many women feel bad about the way they look? Why do most American females, regardless of their age, think they are too fat? Why do 9 over 75 percent of fourth-grade girls report that they are "on a diet?"

The term "body image" has been coined to describe a person's inner sense of satisfaction or dissatisfaction with the physical appearance of her/his body. For most of us, our body image reflects reality: whether we gain or lose a few pounds, achieve muscular definition through exercise or develop "love handles," we generally know it. Our body image is a relatively accurate reflection of our morphology.

But some have body images that are totally out of whack, with perceptions of form and appearance that are extraordinarily distorted. These people are usually women; and although we tend to associate such misperception of one's appearance with anorexia (self-starvation) or bulimia (repeated binging and purging), research now shows that "normal" women suffer from these same body-image problems. In other words, women who have no clinical eating disorder or weight problem-who appear objectively fine-look in the mirror and see ugliness and fat. Why does this happen?

Images of female success and fashion portray the ideal woman as smart, popular, successful, beautiful and always portrayed as very thin (the average fashion model weights 25 percent less than the average woman). Pressure to measure up is great, and is constantly reinforced by family and friends, as well as advertising and popular media. Women still are taught that their looks will determine their success, and that thin equals beautiful. Whenever there is a gap between the cultural image of this ideal woman and an individual's self-perception, consequences may be temporary or only negligibly significant. For others, anxiety, depression, reclusiveness, chronically low self-esteem, compulsive dieting or eating disorders may develop. The results can be tragic: 25 percent -30 percent of women with eating disorders remain chronically ill, and 15 percent will die prematurely.

articles-eating-disorder-32-healthyplaceInformation about the symptoms of and treatment for eating disorders is readily available from a variety of sources. Perhaps a rudimentary focus, therefore, would be to ask the question, what can women do to avoid the trap of negative body image and eating disorders? The following are some beginning steps:

  1. Realistically view your genetic shape. Study photos of your mother, grandmothers, aunts and sisters to get a sense of their family genes for body shape.
  2. Participate in non-competitive physical exercise (dance, yoga, bicycling).
  3. Analyze your body image. What situations make you feel fat? What do you do when you feel fat? Identify negative thoughts and challenge them with positive affirmations.
  4. Adopt a healthy eating plan for life-give up "going on diets."
  5. Look at your self esteem holistically: What is truly, ultimately important to you? What are your skills and talents? What kind of person do you want to be?

The answers to those questions should start you on a path to a healthy body image and help you avoid the dangers of negative body image.

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APA Reference
Gluck, S. (2008, December 12). Distorted Body Image Can Have Tragic Results, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/eating-disorders/articles/distorted-body-image-can-have-tragic-results

Last Updated: January 14, 2014