How Acceptance of Mental Illness Can Help You Manage Stigma

December 27, 2016 Laura A. Barton

Saying mental illness and acceptance in the same breath might seem like an awful idea at first, but accepting your mental health condition can actually be a key player in removing, or at the very least alleviating, the stigma you face (Why It’s Hard to Accept a Diagnosis of a Mental Disorder). Personally speaking, accepting my mental illnesses for what they are helped both the self-stigma and external stigma I felt.

What Is Acceptance of Mental Illness?

Acceptance can mean a lot of things, but for me, I like to refer to a quotation from Michael J. Fox. In his case, I imagine he’s talking about his battle with Parkinson’s disease, but I think it fits nicely across the board.

Acceptance doesn’t mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there’s got to be a way through it.

First of all, when it comes to acceptance, a lot of people think it means that you’re giving up, which it totally doesn’t. It just means that you understand that your mental illness is what it is. It doesn’t mean it doesn’t suck royally, it doesn’t mean you didn’t wish it would go away, it just means that you’re now dealing with it on its terms.

How Can Acceptance of Your Mental Illness Alleviate Self-Stigma?

Accepting your mental illness doesn't mean you're giving up on yourself. Learn what acceptance of mental illness means and how it can positively impact stigma.Speaking from personal experience, acceptance helped take away a lot of my self-stigma. Dealing with my skin-picking disorder is a prime example of this.

Growing up, I never understood the disorder and blamed myself for my inability to stop. Even when I learned more about excoriation disorder (its official name), at first I blamed myself for not being able to control it and, more importantly, for not being able to stop it. In my mind, I was not only a freak but a failure because of it.

Over time, I started to accept the skin picking is a disorder and I began to acknowledge it for what it is, not what I wanted it to be or not be. I accepted that sometimes it would royally suck and be difficult to control, but with that acceptance, I realized I didn’t have to blame myself (Managing Self-Sabotaging Behaviors Part 1: Acceptance). I wasn’t weak or a failure; I was just struggling, and while it’s less than fun, it’s okay.

How Does Mental Illness Acceptance Alleviate External Stigma?

Mental illness acceptance alleviating external stigma is a little trickier, but understanding that the skin picking is a disorder and not my fault helped take some of the pressure of others' words off of me (Mental Health Stigma and the Misuse of Words). Because I had my own understanding of what the disorder is, I was able to recognize that the stigmatizing things people said weren’t a reflection of reality, but rather a reflection of their lack of information (Where is Mental Illness Education?).

Sure, the things people say sometimes still sting, but they roll off me more easily because I don’t take them on as personal truths anymore.

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APA Reference
Barton, L. (2016, December 27). How Acceptance of Mental Illness Can Help You Manage Stigma, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, June 19 from

Author: Laura A. Barton

Laura A. Barton is a fiction and non-fiction writer from Ontario, Canada. Find her on Twitter, FacebookInstagram, and Goodreads.

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