All This Sex Talk
You Must Want It, Right?
Do you like sex? I certainly do. I love how close sex can bring me to
someone I care about, and I love how it can deepen my understanding and
appreciation of that person. I love how much healthy pleasure it brings into my
life. I love how sex can bring me to delightful altered states of
consciousness, and I love the feelings of acceptance and contentment and trust
it can create in me and my partner.
In fact, I love sex so much I've made a hobby
of learning more about it. My site is going to share some of the insights I've
gained as I've grown in my understanding of this fascinating and wonderful
aspect of human experience.
I know there is a lot of miscommunication and
misunderstanding about sex. I'm 35 and I've been there. I remember my first
sexual experience and how frightening that was. The boy I was in love with
ripped off his pants in the front seat of his car and jumped me. Before both of
us knew it, it was over. I'm talking less than one minute.
Then I went through a one-woman sexual
revolution (age 22-26) of my own. It wasn't until I went through therapy as an
adult, recovered my self-esteem and read some books on sex and intimacy, that I
discovered what meaningful sex was all about. And yes, it does help to have a
knowledgeable and talented lover...
... but there's
more.
Don't you find it wonderful when a lover is
really into what you two are doing together, and he or she seems actively,
passionately, and completely absorbed in the pleasure you two are creating?
Isn't it great when he or she is experiencing deep, overwhelming delight and
directing that energy and appreciation back at you? It's a profound irony that
one of the most effective things you can do to become a better lover is to
learn to appreciate pleasure even more, but in my experience it's true. In my
opinion, the three most important elements to becoming a better lover are
learning to feel, choosing what pleases you, and empathy.
And that's what I emphasize in my site. Great
sex isn't an orgasm. It's an experience!
Happy Lovemaking,
Krista
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