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Christine's Journal

Oh, What a World

Christine - Personality Disorder JournalerI'm moving to Georgia Wednesday to join my husband. This should be interesting since most of the personalities have been dormant while I dealt with my daughter's illness. He knows I have D.I.D but I don't know if he really gets it. Hope I don't freak him out too bad...  :(

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Pem/Pam in SC

So... The World Will Be Better Off?  WRONG!

How many times have we who suffer from MPD, depression, or any great emotional pain and stress thought we wanted to leave? For many of us, it's always an option lingering in the recesses of our mind that creeps up and builds when we are suffering the most.

In considering this possibility, we always try to find excuses to justify what we're considering doing. How many of us have said, "my family, my children, my friends would be so much better off without me? The pain I cause them in life is so great that they will be better off without me".

This is the story of Sheila and it's the story of Allyson. Sheila was a multiple who succumbed to the temptation to leave us and Allyson is the life-time partner that Sheila left behind. This story will unfold for you through the words of letters written by Allyson immediately following and during the difficult grieving period that continues still. After reading their story, it will be clear, no one was better off with Sheila gone.

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Online Conference Transcript

Living With and Recovering From Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Melissa Ford Thornton, author of "Eclipses: Behind The Borderline Personality Disorder, joined us to discuss what life is like with Borderline Personality Disorder. She discussed her suicide attempts, self-injury, fears of abandonment, hospitalization, and progress with Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). She also answered many audience questions regarding relationships, medications, and wanting to die but finding the will to live.

Click here to read the transcript to "Living With and Recovering From Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)" with guest Melissa Ford Thornton.

News

A Room With a Cue

Study shows your personal surroundings can tell people much about who you are

Having trouble attracting a mate? Try vacuuming your bedroom.

Want to get that job promotion? Organize your desk and dump the clutter.

The reason: A new study says that even total strangers can puzzle out your personality based on nothing more than the appearance of your personal space.

In a report published in the current Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers revealed that "personal environments" like your bedroom or your work space often reflect major personality traits, even when viewed by those who don't know you at all.

"We found that at least two of the five major personality traits -- conscientiousness and openness -- were evident when looking at a stranger's bedroom. And people were awfully good at judging extroversion when looking at the personal office space of someone they never met," says study author Samuel Gosling, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin.

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JournalerSharing your live with others, especially people you don't yet know, can be difficult. Writing a journal also takes some time, energy and real commitment. Imagine pouring your thoughts and feelings out of a few times a week. If you are interested in keeping an online journal in the HealthyPlace.com Gender Community, the short online application is here.

 

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"Controlling People"
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Does this sound like someone you know?

  • Always needs to be right

  • Tells you who you are and what you think

  • Implies that you're wrong or inadequate when you don't agree

  • Is threatened by people different from him or herself

  • Feels attacked when questioned

  • Doesn't seem to really hear or see you

This Saturday, find out what it takes to free yourself from controlling types; the kinds of people who inflict verbal abuse, battering, stalking, harassment, hate crimes, gang violence, tyranny, terrorism, and territorial invasion. And you can call in and ask our psychiatrist what to do about your personal situation.

Join us this Saturday evening at 4 p.m. PST, 6 CST, 7 EST as we discuss this problem. You can call in and share your stories and ask our psychiatrist your personal questions.

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From Our BPD Bulletin Boards

Daughter with BPD

Rosewarn wrote:

I have a 31 year old unmarried daughter who was dx'd BPD in adolescence, and now has two young children, each by different men. She is hardworking, and wants be independent, financially and otherwise, but she also has juvenile diabetes, and in spite of her diligent effort and progress, it is still very difficult for her to manage, financially and otherwise. She lives in Michigan, and is employed at a hospital as a "patient technician."

I am 65 years old, with three other grown children who care very much for my daughter.

What are the chances of this woman finding a decent man to partner with?

What should I expect as the outcome of her situation, and does anyone have any idea of what I might do to help without compromising her independence?

PJR

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Psychiatric Hospitalization: What It's Like on the Inside

At age 29, Margaret had her first severe manic episode. She became very impulsive, started spending a lot of money. The mania escalated and soon she was receiving "special messages" from the radio and television set. Her fiancé tricked her into going to a psychiatric hospital. What happened when she got there and what it's like being in a psychiatric hospital is the subject of this show.

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