To
Employers
Among many employers nowadays, we think of one member who
has spent much of his life in the world of big business. He has hired and fired
hundreds of men. He knows the alcoholic as the employer sees him. His present
views ought to prove exceptionally useful to business men everywhere.
But let him tell you:
I was at one time assistant manager of a corporation
department employing sixty-six hundred men. One day my secretary came in saying
that Mr. B___ insisted on speaking with me. I told her to say that I was not
interested. I had warned him several times that he had but one more chance. Not
long afterward he had called me from Hartford on two successive days, so drunk
he could hardly speak. I told him he was through finally and forever.
My secretary returned to say that is was not Mr. B___ on
the phone; it was Mr. B___'s brother, and he wished to give me a message. I
still expected a plea for clemency, but these words came through the receiver:
"I just wanted to tell you Paul jumped from a hotel window in Hartford
last Saturday. He left us a note saying you were the best boss he ever had, and
that you were not to blame in any way."
Another time, as I opened a letter which lay on my desk,
a newspaper clipping fell out. It was the obituary of one of the best salesmen
I ever had. After two weeks of drinking, he had placed his toe on the trigger
of a loaded shotgun the barrel was in his mouth. I had discharged him for
drinking six weeks before.
Still another experience: A woman's voice came faintly
over long distance from Virginia. She wanted to know if her husband's company
insurance policy was still in force. Four days before he had hanged himself in
his woodshed. I had been obliged to discharge him for drinking, though he was
brilliant, alert, and one of the best organizers I have ever known.
Here were three exceptional men lost to this world
because I did not understand alcoholism as I do now. What irony I became an
alcoholic myself! And but for the intervention of an understanding person, I
might have followed in their footsteps. My downfall cost the business community
unknown thousands of dollars, for it takes real money to train a man for an
executive position. This kind of waste goes on unabated. We think the business
fabric is shot through with a situation which might be helped by better
understanding all around.
Nearly every modern employer feels a moral responsibility
for the well being of his help, and he tries to meet those responsibilities.
That he has not always done so for the alcoholic is easily understood. To him
the alcoholic has often seemed a fool of the first magnitude. Because of the
employee's special ability, or of his own strong personal attachment to him,
the employer has sometimes kept such a man at work long beyond a reasonable
period. Some employers have tried every known remedy. In only a few instances,
has there been a lack of patience and tolerance. And we, who have imposed on
the best of employers, can scarcely blame them if they have been short with
us.
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