How It
Works
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly
followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not
completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who
are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such
unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way. They
are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which
demands rigorous honesty. Their chances are less than average. There are, too,
those who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do
recover if they have the capacity to be honest. Our stories disclose in a
general way what we used to be like, what happened, and what we are like now.
If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length
to get it then you are ready to take certain steps.
At some of these we balked. We thought we could find an
easier, softer way. But we could not. With all the earnestness at our command,
we beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the very start. Some of us have
tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go
absolutely.
Remember that we deal with alcohol cunning, baffling,
powerful! Without help it is too much for us. But there is One who has all
power That one is God. May you find Him now!
Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning
point. We asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a
program of recovery:
- We admitted we were powerless over alcohol that our
lives had become unmanageable.
- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves
could restore us to sanity.
- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to
the care of God as we understood Him.
- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of
ourselves.
- Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human
being the exact nature of our wrongs.
- Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects
of character.
- Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
- Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became
willing to make amends to them all.
- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible,
except when to do so would injure them or others.
- Continued to take personal inventory and when we were
wrong promptly admitted it.
- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our
conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these
steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs.
Many of us exclaimed "What an order! I can't go
through with it." Do not be discouraged. No one among us has been able to
maintain anything like perfect adherence these principles. We are not saints.
The point is, that we are willing to grow along spiritual lines. The principles
we have set down are guides to progress. We claim spiritual progress rather
than spiritual perfection.
Our description of the alcoholic, the chapter to the
agnostic, and our personal adventures before and after make clear three
pertinent ideas:
(a) That we were alcoholic and could not manage our own
lives.
(b) That probably no human power could have relieved our
alcoholism.
(c) That God could and would if He were sought.
Being convinced, we were at Step Three, which is that we
decided to turn our will and our life over to God as we understood Him. Just
what do we mean by that, and just what do we do?
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